More from The Oddball Bullentin Substack …

Originally published on The Oddball Bulletin Substack  — reposted here with permission

Shit is hard right now, and we know it. As many in our community prepare to participate in No Kings Day on Oct. 18 and we all continue our work for the good of our neighbors for the sake of the gospel, taking time out to cry out grieve, feel our losses, and cry out to God, is imperative. We hope this Lament Service will support you as you continue to endure, resist, and defy the idolatry that is being passed off as the gospel by those conflating nationalism and White Supremacy with our ancient Christian faith.

We believe that wherever two or more gather, that Christ in is their midst 2. For those who are able to gather with others, whether family, friends, co-workers, or people you game with online, we are sending out the Worship Companion and Gathering Guide early 3. We urge you to spend time in prayer and lament with others this coming Tuesday Oct. 14. We know many will have to do this alone—we are praying especially for you who are isolated from like-minded community.

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Click to access the Worship Companion and Gathering Guide. Email oddgracecommunity@gmail.com with questions (or to tell me what I misspelled).

 

 

NEW Circles!

 

 

We also have some things to celebrate. Two new ongoing Circles will be starting this month. Recovering from Christian Nationalism will begin Oct. 16 and Healing Pause will start on Oct. 27. We’ll also have a 5-part Bible Study for Advent starting Nov. 13.

While the world continues to whirl around us, we have some spaces available for community and healing. We hope you’ll join us. You can learn more about these Circles and sign-up to participate below.

In order of how soon they start…

THIS THURSDAY — Oct. 16
Recovering from Christian Nationalism
1st & 3rd Thursdays | 8:30pm ET, 6:30 pm MT | Zoom

 

 

Thursday, Oct. 16 will be the first meeting of a new 12-step group called Recovering from Christian Nationalism, which will meet on Zoom on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 8:30pm Eastern Time, 6:30pm Mountain Time.

Recovering from Christian Nationalism is for anyone working to resist Christian Nationalism (or just trying to survive it) who is willing to start with themselves. No experience with the 12-steps is necessary to participate.

Recovering from Christian Nationalism is a partnership between Odd Grace Community and FREE to Be Community, and will be led by Pastor Lauren Applegate. For our community’s safety, registration is required to receive the Zoom link. You can sign up at https://linktr.ee/oddgrace. Email Pastor Lauren with questions.

If you’ve worked the 12 steps and are willing to lead a study to take others through them to further the work of resisting Christian Nationalism, or you’d like to work the steps with someone, please reach out to Pastor Lauren or Vicar 7. We already have a study prepared, but need more people experienced in the steps to carry the message.

 

Healing Pause – begins Oct 27!
2nd & 4th Mon | 7:30pm ET, 5:30 pm MT | Zoom

 

 

Healing Pause incorporates the power of group meditation and discussion for inner healing and greater freedom. Utilizing the 3 Doors contemplative meditation practice, you’ll be invited into sacred awareness and presence. No experience needed, all types and paths of recovery are welcome.

For our community’s safety, registration is required to receive the Zoom link. You can sign up by clicking the link to the Worship Companion in the show description and going to the “Circle Sign-ups” tab or at https://linktr.ee/oddgrace.

Healing Pause will be led by Pastor Joel Richter – you can reach out to him with questions. He’s nice, we promise.

 

THE AUNTIES of Our Faith
Advent Bible Study 

Starts Nov. 13!
Thursdays in Advent | 8pm ET & 6pm MT | Zoom

 

 

How much do you know about Jesus’ great-great-great (28 greats) Grandma? Or even his mom?

The truth will definitely surprise (and maybe even shock) you.

Join Odd Grace Community and Highlands Lutheran Church as we learn about these fascinating women and what their stories can teach us today about life and faith.

This study is about women–it is NOT a “Women’s Bible Study”. Adults of all genders are encouraged to participate. But definitely adults, because we all cuss a lot and most of the women we’re studying were pretty scandalous (and amazing!). Also, if you’re uncomfortable talking about sexuality, we encourage you to come, so we can help you not be so uptight.

 
  • Nov 13: Tamar

  • Nov 20: Rahab

  • Nov 27: no meeting

  • Dec 4: Ruth

  • Dec 11: Bathsheba (she has a name)

  • Dec 18: Mary!

This study will be led by Vicar 7, with poetic works contributed by Rev. Carla Christopher, Rev. Albert Starr Jr., and Rev. Dr. Elyse Berry. Register here

May God Bless You and Keep You Wonderfully Weird,

Vicar 7

 

PS — Coming soon…

 

We have two more Circles in the works:

Creating Community 4 will be an ongoing online creatives & crafting group. Probably monthly. We’ll learn new crafts together and each share what we’re working on. You can watch Vicar 7 keep trying to make icons out of trash.

Manic Mondays 5 will be a Zoom co-working/body-doubling group sometime on Mondays, time TBD. We’ll do pomodoros and some spiritual or mindfulness practices while we try to get stuff done 6.

 
2 Matthew 18:15
3 You will note that some sections are incomplete, but the parts needed for you to plan a prayer group are done. I just still owe you pet pictures, bios, and music suggestions.
4 This name may change — the idea will not.
5 I have this song stuck in my head. If you have bipolar disorder and would rather I not name the group this, let me know and I’ll think of another name.
6 Really, help me not flunk out of God Grad School.

Liturgy for Prayer Service Lamenting Christian Nationalism Oct 14, 2025

Originally published on The Oddball Bulletin Substack  — reposted here with permission

Also a sort of pastoral letter from Vicar 7

Beloved Oddballs,
On Oct. 14, 2025, we’ll be releasing a podcast Prayer Service Lamenting Christian Nationalism for community members to pray along with. Multiple community members and co-conspirators have worked together to create a lament service that is as beautiful as it is meaningful. We are especially grateful to friends of Odd Grace Community, Rev. Albert Starr and Rev. Carla Christopher for offering their original poetry and voices. If you missed the last issue of the Oddball Bulletin, it’s worth going back to read Rev. Starr’s full poem, but here is an excerpt from For Those Monday Kind of Days 1:

Lamentation frees us to weep,
and we weep the hot, cleansing tears of anguish.
Lamentation turns our crying to crying out,
crying out to the Great One,
Creator and Giver of Life, Shaper of Justice, Maker of Mercy
Lamentation, like a shepherding wind, turning us toward God

and we resist hopelessness,
even our sorrow songs watch for the coming.

We defy the foul stench of misery.
We are bathed in the fragrance of hope.

 

Join our holy experiment in creating beloved community.

1 Used with permission from his book Late Night Offerings and Morning Prayers. You can purchase it from World Stage Press. (You should, it’s really good).

The Delaware-Maryland Synod Assembly Worship

​A rare ‘scripted’  sermon from the “grand finale” Delaware-Maryland Synod Assembly worship. The readings (I reference all 3 readings in the sermon) are 2 Timothy 1:3-14, Psalm 139:1-14, and John 17:9-23 and start at 9:58 with my sermon right after.

In the Texas and California neighborhoods where she raised my father, people often called my grandmother a witch. They’d hear her casting spells in Creole over a stewpot simmering mysterious ingredients.

Papa Nou ki nan sièl,

ké non ou jouinn tout réspè,

ké règn ou vini,

ké volonté ou akonpli ,

sou té a tankou nan sièl.

Ban nou jod a pin chak jou nou,

padonnin nou péché nou,

tankou nou padonnin moun ki ofansé nou.

Pa minnin nou nan tentasion,

min délivré nou an-ba malin an.

Amen.

Sometimes, when her Englisher kin were with her, she would say the words in English for us to learn.

Our Father, who art in heaven,

hallowed be thy name,

thy kingdom come,

thy will be done,

on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day, our daily bread,

and forgive us our trespasses,

as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation,

but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

Timothy worships the God of his ancestors. Without shame or apology. As do I.

Remembering that Jesus came to women. To Brown people. To the poor. To social outsiders. He was known, like his apostles, by multiple names or titles or simply called after what he was. Teacher. Healer. The ways of Jesus were integrated into many sacred practices, embraced by countless cultures who he went to meet where they were, celebrating their practices, eating and resting in their homes, calling them by name. Jesus called the disciples to do the same, to expand their understanding of ways and spaces God could work and who God could work through. Where cultural understanding and marketing materials were still catching up, God’s people could be reached through miracles (power) and the embrace of sacred community (love).

Jesus’ grace came BEFORE the ages began. Before divisions. Before colonization gave us race and binary gender. Ethiopia has the oldest Christian churches, not Rome or Germany. Tradition and scripture hold that a Eunuch, a gender outsider, planted the first church there. Trust in that grace, greater than what we can earn, a gift beyond our logic and learning to understand, grew through miracles and loving community. A combination that calls for bravery and vulnerability. 

I’m often asked how I, as Creole Black, a descendant of people enslaved through the justification of a papal bull, and queer, embrace Christianity? Because I too have witnessed the power and been held and healed in the sacred community that showed up for the woman at the well, for the Magdalene, for spiritual seekers forbidden to speak the names of their childhood gods but who knew power and love when it showed up. Because Psalm 139 healed me as a little lost and confused kid in youth group and puberty at the same time. I learned grace. Now I have the ability to pray with fierce hope (with overwhelm) and compassion (with fatigue). I can be vulnerable and brave.

We can’t talk about prayer today, in any language, without considering our Gospel, John 17, often called the High Priestly Prayer because in a wildly extravagant display of love, Jesus prays not only for himself, but also his disciples, and all future believers. 

John 17 is a unique opportunity to see the nature and heart of Jesus. In this prayer, Jesus touches on many of the themes developed in John’s Gospel: God’s glory, Jesus and his followers being sent into challenging and foreign places with intention, the necessity of a trusting belief, understanding of a global community, and love being the center and the overarching connection between all things. Many of the same concerns of Grandmere’s prayer, commonly called the Lord’s Prayer, are also here in this prayer. A direct plea to God for protection from the evil one. For the world to know God, just as Jesus already does. A God of infinite love, the ability to work miracles and do the impossible, a God of power greater than even the wars and divides of the fearful world.

 “There is no voice which has ever been heard, either in heaven or in earth, more exalted, more holy, more fruitful, more sublime, than the prayer offered up by the Son to God Himself.” (Melanchthon)

So as Jesus bears his heart of hearts to God, what does he pray for his apostles, for US?

Pray for unity and actively pursue harmony within the body of Christ.

That we deepen our knowledge and relationship with God.

That we pray for others and intercede for their needs.

That we sanctify ourselves in the truth of God’s word.

That we trust in Jesus’ love and intercession for us. 

“Glorify me so I can bring glory to you. Protect them from the clutches of that deceiver charmer, the evil one. Protect hearts and faith. Protect the ones Jesus claimed. The marginalized ones. The vulnerable. The outsiders. Give then Unity for community. Sanctification for mission.

Joy.”

Genuine, desperate, I have nowhere else to turn prayer often reveals a person’s innermost being. Countless enslaved and excluded and oppressed people found their resistance and resilience in prayer. Countless unhouse and addicted and abused and afraid people still do. We take it to God when we have no other place to go. Jesus does the same time and time again in the gospels. And those prayers are especially holy, especially sacred. When we give up our own power to let God’s power do the impossible in our government, our families, our bodies, our lives. When we release the us and them of our constructed communities and hierarchies of virtue that prevent us from the full richness of God’s fully inclusive community. We NEED each other’s prayers. Wisdom. Cultural practices. Language and ways of communicating. Ways we have found to survive when there didn’t seem like there was a way. We need each other. So I pray you can receive this. From my queer, Black, woman, unhoused child of a single mother body filled with love and here only by miracle.

Bondye pwoteje ou.

Bondye siveye ou

Bondye akonpanye ou nan lavi ou

Bondye ka fè tout bagay lòm paka fè

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May God protect you.

May God watch over you.

May God go with you in your life.

God can do everything that man cannot do

Stations of the Cross in conversation with the ELCA Social Statements

Available Now! Experience the Stations of the Cross in conversation with the ELCA Social Statements using this new resource created for these times. Available as a free download for small group or personal use or post them as stations in your prayer or worship space. I was honored to do a deep dive into the ELCA Social Statement on Human Sexuality with varied scriptures around the celebration and inclusion of LGBTQIA+ siblings.

Find this wonderful justice-centering educational and spiritual practice tool at:

Kindling Faith: Planting Seeds of Deep Peace

A Lenten Devotional from the Community of United Lutheran Seminary

PROACTIVE PEACEBUILDING!!!! Videos are live! Free download devotional booklet is ready! Let’s do Lent TOGETHER! Immigrant, queer/LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, interfaith, ecumenical voices from multiple states and stations of life and faith. We reflect on the 5 seeds of Proactive Peacebuilding together through encouraging hope and love-filled stories that will inspire and equip. We can DO THIS!

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Thank you SO much to all the amazing contributors – colleagues, fellow students, and friends. 💗 “Join us in this season of Lent in reading daily devotion from the ULS seminary community, co-sponsored by the Lower Susquehanna and Delaware-Maryland synods of the ELCA. Click on the link below for access.

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https://www.unitedlutheranseminary.edu/calendar/kindling-faith-planting-seeds-of-deep-peace—a-lenten-devotional-from-the-community-of-united-lutheran-seminary